Depression · Faith · Family


Things are so busy around here right now! The kids are settling into a routine thank goodness!

We haven’t had any major issues at school, the only problem thus far has been lack of self control when it’s not time to talk on B’s part. I’m so thankful for that!

I took D to school this morning instead of him riding the bus. There was a Student Council meeting this morning, and he’s decided that he wants to be involved in Student Council. I was so proud watching him walk into the school this morning. You see, when I was his age, I would never have had the nerve to go to a meeting like that unless I knew that some of my friends were going, and even then I don’t know if I would have actually gone or not. I was so biting my lip this morning so that I wouldn’t push my own fears and insecurities off onto him. It’s so amazing to me that all three of them are so secure. I hope that means I’m doing something right!

Yesterday was a bad day for me. September has been a hard month for me the past few years. I don’t know why yet, but I’m working on that. Yesterday I had a semi-panic attack. The first I’ve had in a LONG time. It was so scary. I so don’t want to be back where I was before. It’ s so easy for me to hear all the negative self talk, and run with it. I’m constantly battling that. I have to remind myself continuously that I am a child of the King, and that He loves me, and made me who I am, for His glory. I was listening to the new Casting Crowns CD this morning after I dropped D off. At first, I wasn’t really fond of it. But the more I listen, the more I hear God talking to me through these songs. He did the same thing with their last CD Lifesong, but The Altar and The Door is so where I am now. I hear the lyrics to the title song, and to the song Somewhere In The Middle, and that is exactly what I am feeling. I KNOW that I need to fall into God, but somewhere in the middle of that knowledge, I am afraid to lose control. For a long time I had very little control of anything in my life. Now that I’m in a completely different situation, it’s hard for me to let go, and let God take over. I want to, which is I think, the first step. Now I need to take that second step and let Him have it. Trust that He truly does know what is best, and that He will care for me.

I remember when Christina first started talking to me about her relationship with Christ. I was so amazed by her faith. I realized that what I’ve always been looking for, that unconditional, sacrificial love was right there for me. That what I’ve searched for was Christ, I just didn’t know it. I remember that feeling of surrender. Somewhere along the way, I’ve gotten caught back up in the world, and what I’m supposed to be according to those standards. I don’t want to be that anymore, I don’t want to judge myself by the world’s standards. I need to remember that I am, “Fearfully & Wonderfully Made” (Psalm 139:14).

This is where YOU come in. 🙂 I need prayer. I’m setting out on a journey that is hard for me, I’m going somewhere that I have never been, and I can only get there with God. I need for you my friend, to pray for me. It’s so hard to ask for people to help you, and to ask for prayer should be easy, but it’s not. As a human, I want people to like me, to see me as strong and capable. But I’m not. I am not strong, nor am I capable, except through the strength of Christ, my Savior. I ask you to please pray for me, that I will stay in the Word, that I will rely fully on my Lord to pull me out of this darkness I feel myself sinking into. I ask that you please pray that God will help me to eat only when I am hungry, not when I am sad or upset. That I will use food as fuel and nourishment for my body, not as a false god to hold me up when I am down.

This is probably the hardest thing I have ever said to anyone, and I feel somehow like I’m taking the easy out by posting this here instead of calling all my friends and speaking to them in person. Baby steps though, right? Love you all…

3 thoughts on “Ramblings

  1. I love you, Trish! You have my prayers! It is hard to ask sometimes even when you are friends. But I do not think that you are weak in anyway by asking. I think it is a sign of strength!! Whether verbally or by typing on your blog. You mentioned that September is really hard for you…can you think of anything that maybe bad happened in a particular September? The reason why I ask this is because I just realized at camp this last weekend that I have always hated September 30 – Brittany’s birthday. That was supposed to be a wonderful day as she was born, but it turned out to be a tramatic day. That particular day is when I relive that nightmare all over again and she is excited and ready to celebrate her birthday. This year, I am going to change that. I am going to get past that nightmare! It is going to be a day of celebration! And I am going to have her party on her actual birthday, not another day like I have done in the past. Christmas Day used to be a down day for me, too. It was a day that I remembered being totally alone when I was pregnant with Brooke, and living at the Edna Gladney Center in Fort Worth as I waited to give her up for adoption, which I ended up not doing THANK GOD!! I was past due, and could not leave the home more than 30 miles. Home was 75, so I could not go home for the holidays, and my dad didn’t even come to see me! It was THE lonliest day of my life. Until my dad apologized and asked me to forgive him for that a couple of years ago, I thought about that every Christmas. It hurt so bad! So, I was just wondering if you could think of anything particular that made a September worse in the past.I’m here for you if you need to talk!!Love ya!Kimberly

  2. Trish, you are always in my prayers and I love you dearly. I totally understand it being hard to ask for help and prayers. You talked to me and saw me the other day, I was a mess. Unfortunately, that has been the reality every day that I have “woken” up lately. I just tell myself every morning as I am staring at my alarm clock, waiting for it to go off, “God will never give me more than I can handle. Through HIm , NOTHING is impossible!” I’m here for you if you need ANYTHING! No matter what!!TTYL, Lots a Love!Dawn

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